And I never found that "good Mormon girl". Nothing less will do. This is a very delicate territory, so tread carefully.
A shitty sex life, potentially. About ten years ago, I realized I needed to quit qualifying my excellent husband who is a better man than many Mormon men I knowI realized I needed to raise my kids to think of him as completely equal to the men they knew at church. I hope this will change in the future - it would be difficult living a lifestyle like this in the long run. I wish you the best. Forget what anyone else says or expects of you. Getting Over a Breakup. Her Religion is the single most important thing in her life. Well I have no choice. Put your best foot forward; be soft-spoken, courteous, well-mannered, chivalrous, and respectful.
For girls, being the right age for marriage usually means graduating high school, if not later. You are a good person and she can see that. And there are questions and lessons that dual-faith couples face that zero-faith or single-faith households do not. Can they keep a job and or clean up after themselves. I just happened upon your blog I'm a doctor's wife as well - rural family medicine and I just wanted to agree with you that "have no expectations" is awesome advice. He studies all day and night I live in my own world and my own circle. That response made her very happy. By the time you are done, you'll have all of the basics down and will have the framework to know what to ask next without any confusion. There have been times in my marriage where I have been frustrated and angry by his lack of change. I don't think I can do it again.
As a budding feminist, I left the church in my teens. I was skeptical whether this would work with Mormon girlsв sheltered girls who would never step inside a dance club or be wooed by pickup artists. She went to BYU and did a 2 year mission, but since she was a girl she got to have a car instead of a bicycle. How could I help a non-Mormon spouse to feel like a member of my ward family when he is not a member of my church. Consider yourself above many things. Thanks for pointing this stuff out.